What you aim at determines what you see.

According to the ancient teachings of Tantra, if you are a man, you have incarnated as a representative of the masculine force of creation and it is your responsibility to become the best version of masculinity that you can be. This is in spite of your age, your upbringing and in spite of what other experiences you have had that have caused you to behave in certain ways or to believe negative things about masculinity.

From this point on, I invite you to begin a journey of perfecting and honing your energy in order to become the most magnificent male specimen that you can be! 

To know and understand about the nature of fire and the sun is to understand the masculine principle. 

The fire element is simple to understand. What you see is what you get. There are no secrets with fire, although it can be smouldering and thus treacherous, usually it isn’t. And like the sun itself, it “does what it says on the tin”. Simple. Really good at doing the one thing (at a time) and lighting up the world with its dominating presence shining light into the darkest of places and igniting our minds. Yes. Fire and its light dominates. All men have to learn to master their use of dominance to get the most out of life. And there has been a lot of programming about dominance not being good. But if you didn’t dominate the lawn mower, the grass would not get cut and if you did not dominate the circular saw – you are not safe to use the circular saw. Mastering of dominance is good!   

Fire likes to take action. It likes to DO something. Just as it likes to burn through a log, it likes to burn through a project. Fire likes to engage in things and accomplish things. Its bright and warming and hot. Mixed with water (the feminine) it creates steam and passion. 

Much has happened over the centuries to dampen the spirit of masculinity, but you must fight this. For this is the positive aspect of the masculine. To fight the good fight; to protect what is pure. As I heard somewhere “being willing to be dangerous”; to protect what is beautiful and good and wholesome is one of the many gifts of the masculine. 

Without the fiery sun of the masculine, we would be in darkness. The earth (feminine principle) needs the sun. She would die without it. And just as the world needs the fiery sun, the world needs your fire too, your masculine fire. This is why you are here – to add your masculinity to the world.   

You are hard-wired to serve the feminine. Your woman may not know this. Women have been conditioned to not realise this. But this is another truth that is vital to comprehend. This is why, if you have a woman in your life, you need her to be clear about what she needs. To be clear is masculine power and not a feminine way. But you can help her. You can, with warmth and appreciation in your heart, invite her to be clearer, so you can serve her better :) 

For her well-being and for the polarity to work well within your relationship, she needs to learn to carve out time for herself and do things in this space for herself and only for herself, throughout the day and the week. Again, she may not know this yet. For we are all needing to learn, and break out of the conditioning and the propaganda that we have been subjected to. It takes time. 

And for you, you can start now, by standing up more in life and and taking pride in your masculinity. If you do weights and eat well, this will charge up your fire further and will help you hone your masculinity and sharpen your edge to become the man you were born to be.  Meanwhile thank you for your masculinity, for being the warm, protective, instinctive, sharp thinking, problem solving, powerful, and profoundly clear being that you are.