The greater the success, the more it was due to one thing: focus.

According to the ancient teachings of Tantra, if you are a man, you have incarnated as a representative of the masculine force of creation and it is your responsibility to become the best version of masculinity that you can be. This is in spite of your age, your upbringing and in spite of what other experiences you have had that have caused you to behave in certain ways or to believe negative things about masculinity.

From this point on, I invite you to begin a journey of perfecting and honing your energy in order to become the most magnificent male specimen that you can be! 

Understand fire and you understand yourself.

The fire element is simple to understand. What you see is what you get. There are no secrets with fire. And like the sun itself, it “does what it says on the tin”. Simple. Really good at doing the one thing (at a time) and lighting up the world with its dominating presence, shining light into the darkest of places and igniting our minds. Yes. Fire and its light dominates. All men have to learn to master their use of dominance to get the most out of life. And there has been a lot of programming about dominance not being good. But if you didn’t dominate the lawn mower, the grass would not get cut and if you did not dominate the circular saw – you are not safe to use the circular saw. Mastering of dominance is good!   

Fire likes to take action. It likes to DO something. Just as it likes to burn through a log, it likes to burn through a project. Fire likes to engage in things and accomplish things.  

Much has happened over the centuries to dampen the spirit of masculinity, but you must fight this. For this is the positive aspect of the masculine. To fight the good fight; to protect what is pure. "Being willing to be dangerous”; to protect what is beautiful and good and wholesome is one of the many gifts of the masculine. 

Without the fiery sun of the masculine, we would be in darkness. The earth (feminine principle) needs the sun. She would die without it. And just as the world needs the fiery sun, the world needs your fire too, your masculine fire. This is why you are here – to add your masculinity to the world.   

You are hard-wired to serve the feminine.  Your woman may not know this. Women have been conditioned to not know this.  This is why you need to help your woman become clear about what she needs. To be clear is actually masculine power and not her Original Way but you can help her; you can, with warmth in your heart, invite her to simply state the outcome she would like and not the "how", so that you can serve her better. 

The masculine is like the sun shining out there in the world, radiant and visible. To expanding the masculine  is all about getting out there and doing what you have always wanted to do - following your Vision! It is about action not words. Giving your woman the chance to miss you and then you making her life exhilarating when you are with her. Taking the risks involved to become the best version of you in order to keep your woman excited in you. Peaking her emotions! If you are a happily married man but the marriage is sexless or you find yourself chasing her for mediocre sex, then you have lost your masculine edge with her. What is your Vision? Get out in the world and become incredible! Who would you become if she left you? Or if you weren't together anymore? Become him - within your marriage! 

If you do weights and eat well, this will charge up your fire further and will help you hone your masculinity and sharpen your edge to become the man you were born to be.